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面試中的互動與誠意

見工有如相睇?面試的一刻,可以說是所有幻想落空,應該是此幻想中更糟糕,就有如Dating一樣,有沒有試過坐下來,想快一點離開呢?

首先,大家互相對望,打量是不是屬於自己的一群,如何判斷?我就會從衣著、表情、提問和反應決定。可能他們也意識到我沒有如他們般嚴肅衣著和對話。

大家以超正統衣著見人。我有點受不了!她為什麼要穿得像葉劉般,板著一副黑臉,這是什麼道理?我也放慢地給一個極短的回應,告訴你我也沒有興趣。

其實,若大家心裡有著許多懷疑的時候,為何要約見人呢?是浪費自己和應徵者的時間嗎?還是制度上所需呢?我曾經從舊同事口中得知這個玩意!我終於萬分心同感受。

我期望從應徵過程中學到和了解什麼?當然他們密不口封,沒有分享什麼! 這絕對不是雙向的溝通。有時候,我會想當上層說要招攬人才時,我卻在應徵時沒有感受到想被招攬的一份誠意。或許他們覺得我不是專才?那又何必相見呢!

這就是矛盾的處境,是制度上的限制,而被迫見那麼多他們不想見的應徵者?

其實,人與人的互動,是不是應該客氣一點,給人一點尊重?我想說:你發問問題時,可以技巧一點,否則給人狗眼看人低的感覺。

龐大的建築物營造氣勢,但每次我借用洗手間時,通常都在地下一層,應該是保安或支援部用的地方; 但我踏著地板,有種不穩和鬆脫的感覺,房間殘舊、細小,給予同事的環境也是傳統細小劃分的設計,希望日後的改變可以多顧及對同事的一分關心與關懷。

公營機構的流程和架構確是有改進的地方,真的很繁瑣,而部分私家醫院就有點鬆懈,如何取得兩者平衡,究竟可以從什麼渠道借鏡?就正如每年個人能力考核問卷問題,就真的有點傳統,要不要想參考私人市場呢?

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游水自癒

星期日又如常去游水,泳池的人不多,有三分一的泳客都是熟悉的臉孔。數年前,病倒了,在身體慢慢恢復體力時,便重新練習泳水,由15米開始,到20米、25米,以至成功一口氣游50米池,感到水池有給我療癒的感覺,曾經不間斷地每星期差不多日日試游,感覺良好,隨著泳得更起,自信心也增加少許。

十年前,去遊船河從不下水,直至數年前,大膽嘗試一下。當然穿上救生衣,並依附著救生圈游水。當水怪的您不要笑我,船上也有多位朋軰誓不跳船,只是用腳感受海水也免!

兩年前,又一次出海,船上有數位不懂游水,但又只靠著浮條游水的朋友,我心想不如我也試試,試了一分鐘後,心裡要為自己鼓掌,但不久隨著海浪大起來的時候,還是要多一點安全措施。

上月,到朋友會所游水,水温30度,真是暑熱散不去,冬天到泳池游水,下水是要一點膽量的,但十經過分鐘的熱身過去後,會感到微暖的血液在身體內流動,極舒暢的。

今個月快要下海了,我希望再試一下抱著浮條,在大海包圍的自由感覺。

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Finding Meaning in Trivial Work: Lessons Learned

Approaching Christmas, the office is quieter; I delight in having chit-chats with individual colleagues about trivial matters. I had thought that less work at the office made one feel good. At least that’s what I thought. I opted for a position with less pay rather than a senior executive. After all, work-life balance and well-being are so important that I have recently embraced them. 

This mentality has changed in 2024. The economy is deteriorating fast, and everything can change without warnings. 

A sixty-year-old man is not content even though his work contract has been renewed. His boss assigned many tasks to a younger colleague, and now he has more free time at work. Why does he not feel happy? With the renewed contract, his work should be stable enough for years. But human beings are strange animals. Our confidence grows when completing important and meaningful tasks that make us happy. Somehow, ego dictates how we feel. 

I recalled there were times I felt stupid doing the trivial filing work. I asked myself, “What am I doing here?” I had years of high-level training, and then I did the simplest work ever.” I can relate to his feeling. I decided to celebrate moments when I finished tough work and events.

Yesterday, I struggled with hitting the ball through the first gate. That’s essential to partner with your teammates when playing gate ball. Eventually my last strike got me through the first gate. It also got me through the second gate. I defeated the rival team and helped my team win a few more scores. 

I am still learning the mentality of sportsmanship. Savour the moment of championship and tell myself not to give up. Never too late. I may have to wait till good things happen to me.

Do not belittle yourself. Buddhists in the temple sweep the floors and dust every corner every day. These routines look easy, but not on cold or hot days. Prolonged hours of trivial work can be a training for having a stronger mind.

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Location Location Location

​​愛上英國Location、Location、Location的節目,英國地大物博,買家可能想在另一個省買屋,而沒時間找屋。不少家庭看過許多樓盤後,卻未能下定主意,又或者未能出好價買下心儀單位,耿耿於懷。

香港主要以買入單位為主,由200多呎以至過千呎,但都是以同層居多,然而收看了數十集Location、Location、Location後,觀摩了當地買家的心態,是與香港人有別的。

不少英國買家不怕舊屋,想屋內多一點特色,而選擇維多利亞時代或1930年興建的房屋;花園最好向南、平坦而夠大,房間也要大一點,就算只是兩人居住,三至四間房就最合適。部分有子女的家庭會找有五間房的房屋居住。

現代買家都希望客廳和飯廳連為一體,方便照顧孩子、以及與家人和朋友連繫。

若花園有足夠空間,能夠設置辦公室、温室、客房或放彈床就更佳。

香港人多愛新樓,因為維修和漏水等問題出現的機率較少,部分新樓除外,但英國的房屋比較多元化,要深入認識是一盤學問。

倫敦的房價驚人,單位的大小只是較香港大一點,房間和起居室可以分布在兩層或一層半的位置,更可以連室外共用花園或獨立空地。

從前我分不出半獨立屋和獨立屋的分別,多得電視節目和錄像解說才了解更多。

一般而言,排屋比較便宜,半獨立屋或獨立屋比較適合家庭居住;cottage村舍的面積較少。單層平房未必得到民心,但我認為頗為方便。

閣樓改建為辦公室、房間、娛樂空間和貯物房也十分普遍。或許有一天我會尋找我喜愛的大屋!

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Blind boxes

Are you a fan of capsule toys, or a collector of toy figures? When I was small, I collected photos of popular bands. I literally checked out all the neighbouring stores I knew with my parents to purchase photos with my pocket money. Occasionally, my mom will buy me one. 

As the internet was born, fans no longer keep physical photos of their favourite singers. Trading cards of all sorts, from baseball, Marvel to Pokemon have taken up the spotlight and become a hit among children, young adults or even investors. These cards are remarkably designed. Cards can’t be picked but are hidden by covers, just like the capsule toys. Fans usually eye for a specific card or carry a “mission” of collecting the whole set. Even collectable items nowadays are redeemed by random, forcing consumers to spend more. What a marketing strategy! 

I’m not a super fan, so I simply skip the risk of redeeming the Doraemon glass that I do not particularly like. However, some people are willing to put in great effort, spend enormous sums of money and time in buying tons of trading cards in order to get what they’re looking for as specific collectable items or a rare trading card can be resold in high value, or even with an astronomical figure. 

I remember I once received a “lucky gift box” from a friend in Japan. She packed a few items in a box and mailed the box over. It is truly a happy box, giving me a lot of surprises. So when I heard about the news about the popularity of blind boxes nowadays, I recalled my friend’s idea in the early days. Blind boxes are versatile marketing techniques that can be utilized to promote ice cream, bus routes, or even massage options. 

In Hong Kong, senior citizens enjoy $2 dollar concession bus fare. Some couples enjoy weekly journeys by taking different bus routes. They love these adventurous rides. As a consumer, I would love to see a promotion like paying $5 or $10 dollars to try my luck to get a premium ice cream by random, or $20 dollars to bet on a tasty bubble tea.

In general, we all enjoy good deals and new experiences. Life is too brief to pass up the chance to do something that can be done easily and gives us a burst of joy.

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婆婆的一滴眼淚

有一段時間,沒有參加探望長者的活動。香港的夏天炎熱,加上濕度高,平日多留在有冷氣的地方,故此在33度高温下做運動、行山或長時間走路真的不容易,尤其是今年夏天,有數天高達36度,美國和歐洲多國更升温至40多度。熱力在石屎地上吸收後反射,蒸氣除除向上湧上,陣陣熱氣逼人,真的叫人有點難受。

幸好的是,那個周末早上下雨,還有一點點風,感恩的是義工們都可以在長者鄰舍中心等候,我和另一位義工到長者家探訪,長者都把冷氣開了,最後一位長者只在門前短暫碰面,這次探訪總算是個愉快的經驗。跟我一起探訪的義工是一位學生,初次嘗試探訪,我佩服她的勇氣。

與以前的探訪有別之處的是,我們代捐贈者把超市禮卷送給她們,更鼓勵她們與我們同行一同購物。

最終,有一位長者換了衣服,去惠康買東西,真的估計不到的是,她們都愛喝咖啡。一盒即沖咖排和兩條廚房紙,再加冷鮮魚,便100元。她在超巿遇見朋友,十分高興。

我也看到她眼裡有淚光,我的心感到十分温暖。我常常對長者說,多謝她們陪伴我。父母對每個人都十分重要,當他倆離開時,我的內心有時感到空虛,對父母的懷念仍在,有時看到長者高興地運動和聚在一起,我為他們感到高興,探訪他們更給我與老相伴的感覺,多了一份陪伴感覺,她們衷心和善意的感激,也給我一份暖意。